The journey back to school
Posted 30 August 2022
Ok, we know we’re not quite there yet, but can we please gently whisper, “back to school”? The new academic year is right around the corner and now is the time to get on top of it. Sorry, not that sorry. You see, we’re on your side and although there’s still a Bank Holiday to come, it’s time to prepare – especially if you’re a foster carer. Join us on the journey back to school and we’ll try to make it as smooth as possible. Ready?
From Cath Kidston to the middle of Lidl, there are smart school supplies everywhere at the moment, making us pine for that new pencil case smell and a pack of Fruit Pastilles. If you’re not sure where to start, there’s plenty of inspiration online for the classroom of 2022, but what other essentials might need to go on your list as well?
The start of a new year, or whole new school can be a daunting time for any child, let alone one who has gone through the upheaval of being fostered. Even teens may feel some anxiety under their hardcore TikTok exterior. Take some time to ask any children in your care how they are feeling about going back to school and keep an eye out for any triggers that come from school-related subjects. Talk through any worries with them and consistently reassure them. Some children may find it helpful to check out their school’s website and look at photos of lessons and activities or teacher bios. Others may appreciate a drive past their school, or a practise of the route they will use to get there.
If your child didn’t make their Transition Day, try and arrange a visit to site. The first couple days of term are often Inset Days where staff are in school, but not students. You may well be able to have a tour or teacher-meeting during this quieter time to help your child feel less overwhelmed when it is their turn to start.
The beginning of term is also a brilliant time to get to meet up with your foster child’s teacher and their Designated Teacher for Looked After Children (LAC). Simply checking in and getting to know these staff under regular circumstances can prevent a lot of hassle if any challenges arise later. It’s a great opportunity to discuss any specific needs your child may have and give them other helpful information, such as the fact your child visits their birth mother every Tuesday and may well be upset the following day.
We know we joked about that new pencil case, but checking what uniform and equipment your child will need is actually pretty important too. Foster children can feel different enough without extra attention being drawn to them if they don’t have a calculator or wear the wrong colour socks for PE.
Finally, if you’ve all got out of routine during the holidays, now is the time to start gradually getting into a familiar school schedule. Planning in a few treats along the way can make this feel a whole lot nicer as can a special activity to aim for at the end of the first week back.
Wherever your children are going, we hope you all have a smooth journey back to school this year. We’re off to sharpen our pencils now, but if you want to talk through anything, please contact us and we’ll be happy to chat. Probably over a Fruit Pastille.